Sexual Health Blogs

Discover the best independent blogs about sexual health on BlogRolly.

Erotic Grief: When Desire Changes Before You’re Ready — A quiet shock: desire can change before you are ready. In this post I name erotic grief and explain why libido shifts du
Pelvic Floor Therapy: Sexual Wellness, Vitality & Pleasure — Curious how pelvic floor therapy for sexual pleasure and postpartum recovery can boost confidence and vitality? I guide
The Art of Sensual Touch & Domination: Massage, Kink, and Erotic Connection — Picture a slow oil massage, silk blindfold and a delicious shift into surrender. I guide you through sensual touch domin
Menopause and the Rebirth of Desire: Understanding Midlife Sexual Transformation — Ready for a new chapter in midlife sexuality? In this post I unpack menopause sexual transformation, from brain fog and
Multi-Orgasmic Men – Become One of the 3% in Just 9 Weeks — Want to join the 3% of men who unlock multiple orgasms? I explain how non-ejaculatory, full body orgasms work, share a s
Semen Retention: Benefits, Risks & Tantric Techniques — Curious about semen retention benefits and tantric techniques for semen retention for lasting energy, focus and deeper i
Keeping Sex Pleasurable After 60 — Think sex ends at 60? Think again. I explain why many people hit their most satisfying sexual lives in midlife, and give
Wax Play and Massage Candles: Turn Up the Heat, Babe! — Want hotter, safer play in the bedroom? I lay out a step by step wax play guide for beginners, showing how to use massag
The importance of sexual health education for senior adults — Did you know many older adults never had sex education? Here I explain why sexual health education for senior adults mat
In which I put my finger on it… and keep it there! — Surprising truth about orgasm timing, the clitoris often holds the answer. I trace Mary Jane Sherfey's pioneering resear
Sex Squicks & 100 Other Things You Didn’t Know About Sex! — Big news, Sex Squicks book release is finally real, my Carnal Nation columns collected in one Sexperience nonfiction vol
Some Kinds of Love — Surprising findings from my informal surveys of outlier desire. Read about objectum sexuality and object personification
Erectile Dysfunction - Why The Cure Promises Fail So Many Men So Badly — Most ED cures miss the point. In this post I unpack why popular promises for erectile dysfunction fail so many men, why
A Secret to Reclaiming Your Sexual Desire — Heartbreak taught me a hidden truth about desire. Eight years ago I lost my libido in a loving relationship and we ultim
Question: what people struggle with the most in sex? — Struggling with sexual confidence? In this post I answer what people struggle with most in sex, beyond premature ejacula
What does a sex coach do? — Curious what a sex coach does? As a somatic sex coach I guide women and couples through four pillars: sexual mastery, mi
How Guided Imagery Can Improve Your Sex Life — Want a mental tool that boosts arousal and reduces performance anxiety? In this post I explain guided imagery for sex an
Why Do I Feel Shame Around Sex, and How Can I Overcome It — Why do I feel shame around sex? As a Chicago sex therapist, I explain how sexual shame often starts with family messages
Talk 'Erotic' Not 'Dirty' — Bold idea: stop calling sex dirty. In this post and podcast episode I explain why 'dirty' fuels shame and how to talk er
Take the Pressure Off Your Penis! — What if your penis needs a break? In this post I help you ease penis performance anxiety with practical, sex positive ad
The Erotic as a Celebration of Life’s Goodness — Imagine sunlight warming your skin on a cold morning, or a piece of music that makes your chest ache. In this post I exp
What You Should Teach Your Baby About S-E-X — Curious what to teach your baby about sex and when to start? I guide parents through developmentally appropriate sex edu
Sex-Positive Books for Readers of All Ages — When I was 22 I fell into a pile of sex-positive books. Nerve.com and Brookline's Grand Opening! were making waves, Susi
How Abstinence-Only Sex Ed Reinforces Rape Culture — What happens when abstinence-only sex ed meets campus sexual assault? I argue abstinence-only sex education reinforces r
Disabled Youth Aren’t Receiving the Sex Ed They Deserve — Too many disabled teens get left out of sex ed. Here I pull from Alice Wong's Disability Visibility and Sex Ed for All M
How to Normalize Talking to Your Kids About Pleasure — Bold history meets practical advice. As a sex ed educator I revisit Joycelyn Elders' 1993 moment and show how to talk to
Why Inclusive Sex Ed is the Foundation of Sexual Health — Remember the banana condom lesson? In this post I argue inclusive sex education is the foundation of sexual health, cove
All About Orgasms — Think orgasms are the only goal of sex? I unpack what is an orgasm, why society equates orgasm with sexual pleasure, and
Some Help Choosing Lube for Anal Play — Confused by lube choices for anal play? This post guides you through choosing lube for anal play, covering water-based v
Smoking, Vaping & Sexual Health Issues — Surprising fact: vaping can double the risk of erectile dysfunction. I explain smoking and sexual health and how nicotin
Better Sex Through Sound Using Toning — Could sound improve your sex life? In this post I explain a holistic sex technique using toning, the human voice and mus
Erectile Dysfunction — Struggling with erections or unsure which erectile dysfunction treatment options fit you? In this post I explain ED caus
Condoms & Dental Dams — Want clear, practical guidance on condoms and dental dams for safer sex? As a clinical psychotherapist I explain condom
Sex & Insomnia — Surprising but true, insomnia often kills libido and raises risk of ED and female sexual dysfunction. As a clinical psyc
Penis Facts — Surprising fact: we all start as female in the womb, and the head of the penis and clitoris are the same tissue. I expla
Birth Control — No-nonsense guide to types of birth control and contraception options, with clear info on how effective birth control me
Vulva & Vagina Facts — Ever wondered about the difference between vulva and vagina? In this clear sex education post I walk through vulva vs va
Vaginal Dryness Remedies — Struggling with painful sex from vaginal dryness? I explain why it happens, from menopause and hormones to stress and me
Teens Have Idea for a Condom That Can Detect an STD — A glowing condom that lights up green for chlamydia or purple for HPV sounds like sci fi. I loved the S.T.EYE idea from
HPV vs. HIV: Do You Know the Difference? — Confused about HPV vs HIV? I clear up the key differences, explain HPV symptoms, skin to skin and sexual transmission, t
Misconceptions About Herpes — Surprising stat: 41 percent thought herpes was deadly. I clear up common misconceptions about herpes, explain oral versu
Your Guide to Choosing a Condom — Think condoms are all the same? Not true. In this teen-friendly guide I explain how to choose a condom, condom sizing an
How to Fuck Better – 14 Things Every Man Should Do in Bed — Want to be better in bed? I keep it blunt and practical with 14 straight tips on how to fuck better. Expect actionable a
How to Please your wife sexually — Want passion back in your marriage? This ultimate guide on how to please your wife sexually lays out simple, real steps
Are penises getting smaller? — Are penises getting smaller? I unpack penile shrinkage versus normal variation, show how to measure your penis and check
How to Relax and Receive Sexual Pleasure — Surprising truth: learning to receive changed my sex life. In this post I share a simple 6-minute practice I teach as a
How I Finally Learned to Love My Body (and My Pussy Too) — Once an old photo triggered the cruel voice that called me ugly and unfuckable. This raw, personal post traces how body
Three Reasons Women Stop Wanting Sex — Ever felt like sex is hard work? As a sex intimacy coach I explain three reasons women stop wanting sex: not knowing wha
How to Regain Interest in Sex After Having a Baby — How to regain interest in sex after having a baby? In this post I explain why moms feel sexually "broken", how to recove
The Many Faces of Low Libido in Women — Too many women are told they're broken. In this post I map 28 faces of low libido in women, explain female low libido ca