Intimacy Blogs

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• Erotic Grief: When Desire Changes Before You’re Ready — A quiet shock: desire can change before you are ready. In this post I name erotic grief and explain why libido shifts du
• You Don’t Have to Be Fully Healed to Love Again — Forget the "heal yourself first" rule. I explain how to love while healing with real practical guidance for dating while
• The Healing Power of Belly Hugs — One simple touch can stop an argument in its tracks. In this post I teach the belly hug, skin-to-skin belly contact for
• When to Leave — A quiet reckoning, not a dramatic collapse. In this post I explain how to know when to leave a relationship, why leaving
• When Sexual Frequency Becomes the Silent Issue — When sex fades, monogamy can start to feel like confinement. I unpack the unspoken agreement about sexual frequency, exp
• Intimacy Tolerance: Why Some People Can’t Stay Close (And What That Says About Desire) — Ever notice desire vanishing when closeness deepens? I explain intimacy tolerance, why people can’t stay close, and how
• Love Stayed. Desire Didn’t. Now What? — What happens when love remains but desire fades? Here I map why desire shifts, what changes like menopause, illness or g
• AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT: When Intimacy Activates Withdrawal — Ever watched closeness make someone pull away? In this post I explain avoidant attachment, why intimacy activates withdr
• Nice, Polite, and Lonely: Why Authenticity Is Kinder Than Courtesy — What if politeness is killing your desire? I explain how niceness becomes self-editing and emotional distancing, and why
• When Wanting Becomes Lonely — What happens when desire drifts apart in a monogamous relationship? I name the grief, longing and shame couples feel whe
• Rituals for Reconnection: Practices That Precede Passion — Want passion back? In this post I map rituals for reconnection and practices that precede passion, showing how daily rit
• Exploring Female Fantasies: What Women Desire, Uncover, and How It Empowers Them — What do women really want when it comes to desire and fantasy? In this post I trace the arc from Nancy Friday's My Secre
• The Art of Sensual Touch & Domination: Massage, Kink, and Erotic Connection — Picture a slow oil massage, silk blindfold and a delicious shift into surrender. I guide you through sensual touch domin
• Menopause and the Rebirth of Desire: Understanding Midlife Sexual Transformation — Ready for a new chapter in midlife sexuality? In this post I unpack menopause sexual transformation, from brain fog and
• Love as a Practice: Caring for Ourselves and others in Body, Heart, and Spirit — What if love is a practice, not a feeling? In this post I offer somatic self-care and concrete guidance for how to pract
• Surrogate Partner Therapy: When Talking Is Not Enough — Ever felt stuck when talk therapy stops helping? In this post I describe Surrogate Partner Therapy and why experiential
• 3 Secrets You Need To Know To Improve Your Sexual Confidence — Feeling small in the bedroom? As a tantric practitioner and coach I reveal 3 secrets to improve your sexual confidence,
• Multi-Orgasmic Men – Become One of the 3% in Just 9 Weeks — Want to join the 3% of men who unlock multiple orgasms? I explain how non-ejaculatory, full body orgasms work, share a s
• 5 Clear Signs Of Mommy Issues In Men And How To Create A Healthy Relationship — Ever met a Jack who calls his mom for everything? In this post I list 5 clear signs of mommy issues in men, explain momm
• 5 Essential Steps To Healing The Mother Wound Forever — Struggling to connect with women despite wanting intimacy? In this post I give a practical 5-step method to heal the mot
• 7 Playful Sexual Surprise Ideas To Rekindle Your Relationship — Want to reignite the spark? In this post I offer seven playful sexual surprise ideas to rekindle your relationship, with
• Semen Retention: Benefits, Risks & Tantric Techniques — Curious about semen retention benefits and tantric techniques for semen retention for lasting energy, focus and deeper i
• Transcendental Sex Meaning: What Is Transcendental Sex? Is It Real Or No? — Think sex can't be spiritual? This post explains the transcendental sex meaning and answers what is transcendental sex,
• Tantra Yoga For Men: 10 Yoga Poses For Strong Male Sexuality — Ten tantric hatha yoga poses for men to build pelvic floor strength, strengthen the abdominal core and boost male sexual
• What Is Tantra: Meditation Or Intimacy? A Real Expert Guide — Curious whether tantra is meditation or sex? With over 1,500 hours of certified training and eight years teaching men to
• 47+ Sexless Marriage & Divorce Statistics — Curious how common sexless marriages really are? In this post I compile 47+ sexless marriage divorce statistics with sou
• Testicle Breathing: The Complete Guide — Curious about testicle breathing? In this complete guide I walk through how to do testicle breathing step by step, with
• Physical Intimacy: How to Increase It in Your Relationship — What if holding hands could stop you feeling like roommates? I'm Steffo Shambo, a men's tantric relationship coach who's
• 7 Simple Tantric Breathing Techniques to Boost Your Intimate Life — Want to unlock your mojo with just your breath? I walk you step by step through 7 simple tantric breathing techniques to
• 4 Stages To Go From A Toxic To A Spiritual Love Relationship — Want to turn a toxic romance into a spiritual love? Here I outline how to go from toxic relationship to spiritual relati
• Tantric Massage: The Complete Guide — Want to heal intimacy and master how to give a tantric massage like a pro? In this complete professional guide I walk th
• Keep Dating Your Partner — Never stop dating your partner. I lay out how to keep dating your partner with a simple twice a month routine for busy c
• It’s Not About Sexual Frequency — Struggling with mismatched sexual desire? In this post I explain why sexual frequency is rarely the real issue, and offe
• So You Want to Play with Power - Part I — Curious about power play but not sure where to start? I explain what kink and power exchange really mean, share benefits
• Keeping Sex Pleasurable After 60 — Think sex ends at 60? Think again. I explain why many people hit their most satisfying sexual lives in midlife, and give
• Power Play in Practice - Part II — Want safer, more satisfying power play? I walk you through practical negotiation skills for kinky power play, covering y
• Aftercare: What ‘Vanilla’ Folks Need to Learn from Kinksters — Surprising fact: aftercare isn't just for kinksters. Here I walk through simple post-sex aftercare for vanilla couples,
• Playing it Safe: How to Talk About Safe Sex with a New Partner — Want to skip the awkwardness and stay safe? I offer clear, calm scripts and safe sex conversation tips for how to talk a
• 4 Signs You're Not Sexually Attracted to your Partner & What to Do About it — Feeling disconnected in the bedroom? I explain four clear signs you're not sexually attracted to your partner, common ca
• What Are The Five Types of Intimacy? — Curious what the five types of intimacy are? As a relationship and sex therapist I map out physical, emotional, intellec
• Caretaker Sex 101 — Feeling like sex has become a duty? I unpack caretaker sex, why one-sided sex happens, how perimenopause can shift desir
• Unraveling Blocks to Your Sexual Energy — Feeling stuck in your sexual energy? As a pelvic floor expert trained in yoga and pelvic de-armouring, I explain how Big
• On Sexual Shutdown and Sexless Marriages — Feeling stuck in a sexless marriage or facing a gradual sexual shutdown? Here I map clear steps to reignite desire with
• 3 Benefits of Liberating Your Voice in Love Making (Noisy Sex) — Want louder, more intense orgasms? In this post I walk through 3 benefits of liberating your voice in love making, from
• Oxytocin, the Love and Connection Hormone — Feeling distant from your partner after menopause? In this post I explain how oxytocin, the love and connection hormone,
• The Bristle Reaction- when there is an aversion to touch — Ever flinch at a partner's touch despite loving them? Here I unpack the bristle reaction, explain why touch can feel lik
• Wildflowers — Craving a sexy, slow-burn escape? I wrote Wildflowers, an erotic short story for my sex coaching blog about Jayne’s solo
• Spicing Up Your Friends With Benefits: Navigating Boundaries for More Fun, Better Sex, and Respect — Want better sex without the drama? I walk you through practical friends with benefits boundaries and how to set boundari
• Myths and Misconceptions About Butt Play: Debunking Common Fears — Ready to stop squirming? This post debunks common myths about butt play and anal play misconceptions, from pain and dirt
• Wax Play and Massage Candles: Turn Up the Heat, Babe! — Want hotter, safer play in the bedroom? I lay out a step by step wax play guide for beginners, showing how to use massag