Pleasure Blogs

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Exploring Female Fantasies: What Women Desire, Uncover, and How It Empowers Them — What do women really want when it comes to desire and fantasy? In this post I trace the arc from Nancy Friday's My Secre
3 Benefits of Liberating Your Voice in Love Making (Noisy Sex) — Want louder, more intense orgasms? In this post I walk through 3 benefits of liberating your voice in love making, from
Wax Play and Massage Candles: Turn Up the Heat, Babe! — Want hotter, safer play in the bedroom? I lay out a step by step wax play guide for beginners, showing how to use massag
Why Pleasure Matters: Reclaiming Your Right to Feel Good — What if pleasure was non negotiable? In reclaiming your right to feel good I unpack why pleasure is essential self care
All About Orgasms — Think orgasms are the only goal of sex? I unpack what is an orgasm, why society equates orgasm with sexual pleasure, and
Creating Your Pleasure Practice — Ready to reclaim joy in everyday life? Here I map out how to create a pleasure practice, with practical pleasure practic
How to Fuck Better – 14 Things Every Man Should Do in Bed — Want to be better in bed? I keep it blunt and practical with 14 straight tips on how to fuck better. Expect actionable a
What is rimming? How to do it and how to ask for it? — Curious about rimming and how to ask for rimming? In this post I explain what is rimming, why it can feel so good, and h
When Not to Thrust During Sex — Want better sex without constant thrusting? In this post I explain when not to thrust during sex and exactly how to grin
I Still Want More — Eleven condoms later, I’m left breathless and reeling from a lunch that turned into something messy and electric. This f
Face Cream — A lunchtime fantasy unfolds. I share a sensual short story about sitting at my messy desk, craving more than food and sl
Oral sex — Curious how to give good oral sex? I walk you through clear tips to pleasure your partner, practical oral sex tips for v
Come Harder - You Deserve It — Want a bigger orgasm? In this sex positive, confessional post I walk through three masturbation techniques for women: go
Fingering Yourself Never Felt So Good — Surprising truth: I tried the Selopa Good Point G-Spot finger vibrator and fingering never felt so good. My hands-on Goo
40 Pounds of Pure Ass — Forty pounds of pure ass is my kind of problem. In this Tantaly Daisy Plus review I cover the 40 pound sex doll heft, th
How to Get More Handjobs — Confession: I went through a full blown handjob phase and wrote five blunt, sex positive tips on how to get more handjob
A Flexible Grinding Pad for All Your Humping Needs — Want a vibrator made for humping? My Osuga Puzzle review covers its flexible grinding pad, bendy silicone arm with two v
How to Master the Art of Water Play — Wet skin changes everything. In this post I explain why water play is so sexy and share practical shower sex tips, sensu
How Pleasure Deepens Intimacy — Want deeper intimacy? I show how pleasure deepens intimacy by slowing you down, calming your nervous system, and turning
Beyond the G-Spot: What to Know About the A-Spot — Curious about the A-spot and how to find it? In this post I walk through what the A-spot is, how it differs from the G-s
Sleeping Beauty Syndrome: Fantasies About Sex With a Sleeping Person — Curious about somnophilia and Sleeping Beauty Syndrome, fantasies about sex with a sleeping person? I dug into the resea
5 Things Science Has Taught Us About BDSM — Did you know science finds at least eight reasons people are drawn to BDSM? In this post I summarize five key research f
Sexy Sounds: The Songs People Hear in Their Sexual Fantasies — Surprisingly, 55% of people report music playing in their sexual fantasies. In my survey of 4,175 Americans I look at so
caught — Caught at the pond, I let the warm breeze lift my short summer dress in a quick erotic snippet. A sensual outdoor encoun
The Napkin’s Message — A napkin changed everything by the pool in Barcelona. In this steamy erotic short story Barcelona I follow Zoe and Dan a
Acoustic wank: I came using only my hands — Words beat toys sometimes. Here I recount an acoustic wank, how I came using only my hands while cuddled with my partner
I put the ‘ho’ in hotel — Traffic crawls on the motorway, the city blurs and mischief heats up. I booked a splash-out spa hotel to rescue our sex
Sex 'n' Beatings — A late night of cane play and a begged-for orgasm is the heart of this post. I write a raw BDSM journal entry about cani
Flogging Class — A spur of the moment trip took us to a flogging class two hours away. We watched, then practiced at home. I stood naked
Splash; The Next Chapter — That hot tub scene was only the beginning. I left the club, returned to my hotel, and answered a corridor call for a pri
The Art of Receiving: How to Feel Your Pleasure & Make Others Want to Give It — A moment after a first kiss, a tentative spanking became a master class in receiving pleasure. I lay out clear, practica
5 Easy Ways to Give a Blowjob with a Condom — Want safer, sexier oral play? I give 5 easy ways to give a blowjob with a condom, practical condom oral sex tips for cho
I Masturbate — Confession, a raw woman-led solo female masturbation story where I tease you while you watch. Expect guided undress, sen
We Deserve More Orgasms, Dammit — Fifty years after the sexual revolution, women still orgasm less than men, and I am furious. Drawing on Closer and Becom
My Clit is a Diva and I’m Sorry-Not-Sorry — Surprising confession: my clit behaves like a diva, it hates direct clitoral stimulation and prefers pressure on the cli
10 Fun Ways to Indirectly Stimulate the Clit — Struggling with a super sensitive clit? Here are 10 fun ways to indirectly stimulate the clit I've relied on, from dry-h
Wax & Water — Hot wax followed by ice: sensory contrast heightens every sensation. She alternates torment and relief, his body dancing
Femdom Fiction: A Girl And Her Tease — Playful domme teases relentlessly: feathers, whispers, denied touches. He squirms in exquisite torment, her giggles unde
Femdom Fiction: Pent Up — Weeks in chastity culminate in frantic release. She unlocks him, strokes mercilessly to the edge, then lets him explode,
Femdom Fiction: Pleasing Her Cunt — He worships at her altar, tongue devoted to her pleasure alone. She rides his face mercilessly, denying his own release