Consent Blogs

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• Why we need to talk about Power & Pleasure? — Who really holds the power and who gets the pleasure in a first time intimate encounter? At Oxford Brookes I ran a two h
• How Abstinence-Only Sex Ed Reinforces Rape Culture — What happens when abstinence-only sex ed meets campus sexual assault? I argue abstinence-only sex education reinforces r
• Why Sex Education Matters — Everyone deserves to feel powerful in their body. In this post I explain why sex education matters and why comprehensive
• Not Everyone Masturbates, and That's Okay! — Feeling pressured by Masturbation May? I outline why some people don't masturbate, from internalized shame from family,
• Women Against Feminism: Misinformed & Missing the Point — Surprised by the Women Against Feminism Facebook page, I thought it was a parody. Looking closer, my anger turned to con
• Why Consent Can Help Prevent Sexual Assault — What if talking about consent can prevent sexual assault? As a 17 year old in Maplewood I asked classmates how consent c
• How you teach ‘Consent’ — Want consent lessons that actually change school culture? As Education and Programmes Manager at Split Banana, I map a c
• What is rimming? How to do it and how to ask for it? — Curious about rimming and how to ask for rimming? In this post I explain what is rimming, why it can feel so good, and h
• Massage Practice — A routine practice session with a friend training to be a yoni masseuse turns into a candid yoni massage practice and se
• Anal sex — Curious if anal sex will hurt and how to start safely? Practical, friendly guidance on consent, talking to a partner, lu
• Sleeping Beauty Syndrome: Fantasies About Sex With a Sleeping Person — Curious about somnophilia and Sleeping Beauty Syndrome, fantasies about sex with a sleeping person? I dug into the resea
• Why Halloween Is The Perfect Opportunity To Explore Roleplay Fantasies — Want to turn Halloween into a permission slip for play? I give four practical Halloween roleplay ideas and costume rolep
• blindfolded — A blindfold, cold cuffs and a private island promise set the scene for a raw blindfolded BDSM short story. For advanced
• The night that changed everything — Trigger warning: contains a non consensual sexual encounter. A fictional erotica written from my perspective about a lat
• Be a doll for me — A confession, being his doll felt more electric than I expected. Sunday (part 8): Be a doll for me continues my Sundial
• Fill me with cum: Not quite asleep, very clearly consenting — Can pretending to sleep be hotter than being awake? I tell a late night, very explicit personal story about consenting a
• How to write consent into erotica — Want to write CNC that actually reads consensual? In this post I show how to write consent into erotica, with practical
• Please don’t use AI to write porn — Robots can't surprise you the way a lover does. I recount testing ChatGPT on my sex blog, the rise of AI boyfriend spam,
• Changing No to Yes — When the "Baby, It's Cold Outside" debate came up, I looked at consent and desire in my consensual M/s relationship. I r
• Splash; The Next Chapter — That hot tub scene was only the beginning. I left the club, returned to my hotel, and answered a corridor call for a pri
• The Boss — A cramped North London pub, too much wine and a boss who crosses the line. I recount that evening with blunt honesty, tu
• Nocturnal; bareback in the dark — Midnight birdsong and a forgotten bathroom light set a charged scene. I recount a nocturnal bareback encounter in the da
• Sweat — Hot sweaty gym erotica, a first person sweaty gym fantasy about lingering glances, damp lycra and raw desire. I tell a s
• 5 Easy Ways to Give a Blowjob with a Condom — Want safer, sexier oral play? I give 5 easy ways to give a blowjob with a condom, practical condom oral sex tips for cho
• The Do’s and Don’ts of Flirting While Kinky — Ever wondered how to flirt while kinky without being creepy? In this post I walk through practical do's and don'ts for f
• Advice for New Dominants from Experienced Submissives — Curious what submissives wish new Dominants knew? I collected hundreds of femdom subs' responses and compiled a 13 page
• How to Spot a Scam in the Femdom or D/s Online Scene — Spot red flags before you send money or sexy photos. I outline how to spot a scam in the femdom and online D/s scene, wi
• What is Femdom? — Curious about what femdom really means? In this post I define femdom and outline partial authority transfer (PAT) versus
• Let’s talk about sex! Sexual consent for people with learning disabilities — Ever wondered about sexual consent for people with learning disabilities? In this post I review law in England, Wales an
• Frequently Asked Questions About Daddy Dom/Little Girl Kink — Curious about DD/lg? In this personal FAQ I answer common questions about the Daddy Dom/little girl kink, from what a DD
• Wax & Water — Hot wax followed by ice: sensory contrast heightens every sensation. She alternates torment and relief, his body dancing
• Femdom Fiction: Consensual Non-Consent — Pre-negotiated "ravishment": she "forces" him despite protests, safe word in place. Thrilling fantasy of resistance crus
• Femdom Fiction: Consensual Non-Consent — Pre-negotiated "ravishment": she "forces" him despite protests, safe word in place. Thrilling fantasy of resistance crus
• Femdom Fiction: Jerk Off Instructions — A command-driven erotic piece focused on authority and guided submission. Uses instruction as a storytelling device to e
• Femdom Fiction: Personal Sex Doll — A provocative piece examining objectification as fantasy within consensual dominance. Explores identity, control, and ps
• 5 Ways to Celebrate Locktober — A playful yet grounded guide to engaging with Locktober traditions. Balances erotic exploration with consent, communicat